So this word means a lot to me, because I'm still Delta Gamma wired, I think "oh if I change my mind about kids, and have a daughter, she would be my little legacy!" sometimes thoughts like that make me consider having kids, then I deal with a teenager at Kroger and I'm back to the yeah, no chance bro school of thought. [side note. that confession is not an invitation to tell me that I will change my mind or tell me anything else about why I should have kids. it's not like I'm even close to that point in my life yet to begin with.] anyways.
I touched on it a little last week, but what drives me is the need to leave the world a better place. I try my hardest to leave situations better than I find them. I try to go out of my way if someone does their job well [which sometimes people think is really weird. you should hear managers when I ask to speak to them because of a positive experience, they're always expecting to hear an angry customer..] I think it's important to say thank you and I love to send thank you cards. Sometimes for no reason. Sometimes just to say hello. [now that I'm thinking about it, would it be weird to send out Christmas cards just as myself? I really need to get a dog...]
I'm still searching for my legacy. I don't know what it's going to be, but I have plenty of time to figure it out. Right now, I'll focus on what I'm good at and how I can use those skills, my personality, and my passions to make the world a better place. That's what I want my legacy to be. What do you want yours to be?
I am the same way, I just want to make the world a little brighter and show people how much they are loved and that they matter!
ReplyDeleteI wish more people were like us! good vibes all around!
ReplyDeleteIt sounds to me like you're already leaving a legacy :) You never know how much your positive actions affect someone else. I know anytime I encounter an encouraging, kind person, it will literally alter my mood for several days. I will be more positive and hopeful about the world, and in turn, pay it forward.
ReplyDeleteIt's like a ripple effect.
I'm so happy to get acquainted with people like you in the blogosphere! I wish the WODW ladies could lunch somehow ;-)
plus it's SUCH a better use of your time, you know? at least for me, it's so much easier to make someone's day better than to be negative. I drive people crazy sometimes because I'm always trying to find the silver lining. like if our server is a total pill? maybe they're having a rough day and if we're just nice and tip well, they'll be in a better mood for the next customer!
ReplyDeleteI have learned, smiling at strangers can get you into trouble though. I gotta keep that one in check a little bit because I don't want to end up on next week's episode of Criminal Minds.......
I WISH WE COULD ALL DO LUNCH TOO! I love how positive everyone is + how sweet all the comments are. Sorry I couldn't find a way to tie in pot to this post though, I even thought about it before hitting publish.... hahahah
I don't think there's anything wrong in trying to find the good in any situation. Sounds like you're making your own legacy. <3 I'll let you borrow my cat for Christmas cards. ;) haha
ReplyDeleteThat is such a good deed, leaving positive feedback..
ReplyDeleteKasey, I love this and I love positive people like you! I'm definitely much more of an Eeyore, but it absolutely brightens my day when someone has a kind word or goes out of their way to help. It absolutely makes the world a better place, one deed at a time, one person at a time. It's the ultimate Pay it Forward. :) Thanks so much for linking up!
ReplyDeleteOne person can change your day and never underestimate what the power of being nice to one person does. I believe things do get paid forward in a beautiful ripple effect.
ReplyDeleteclearly you need to send out christmas cards....with minus.
ReplyDeleteOH MINUS THAT'S TOTALLY WHO SHOULD BE IN MY CHRISTMAS CARD!
ReplyDeleteit's a reward in itself, to make someone's day better, isn't it?
ReplyDeletethanks so much for hosting + coming up with prompts that really make you think! I love it!!
ReplyDeleteand it's so easy. it's just as easy to tell someone they're doing a great job as it is to huff + puff about bad services
ReplyDeletehahaha maybe I can borrow the roommates dog!
ReplyDeleteI am a big thank you card sender as well. Nothing is better than sending those little suckers out! And you can most certainly send out Christmas cards. I sent them out many years with just me...no spouse, no animals, no kids. Noone ever complained about getting them :)
ReplyDeleteI might just do it! I do have an old picture of me with Santa!! I really love thank you notes, I couldn't even explain why I like them so much.
ReplyDeleteI agree!
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